Funeral Guideline

We extend our deepest condolences and offer heartfelt prayers for those who are grieving the loss of their loved ones. What follows is a pathway through this difficult time

Initially, we suggest making contact with the Undertaker of your choice. The body of your loved one will be cared for by them and taken back either to your house, the funeral home, or the church where it will remain until the morning of the ceremony. The Undertaker will also contact the Parish funeral team.

The funeral team will arrange to meet with you and explain the options outlined here. Before meeting them, you might like to make a list of those who would feel comfortable undertaking a reading, or, a role such as presenting symbols.

There are thre key moments: the Vigil; the Ceremony; and, the Committal

The Vigil
The video above will outlines the importance of the Vigil. It takes place on the evening before the funeral ceremony. At the end, a funeral team member can be available to lead the prayer.

The Ceremony
Something to consider: It’s becoming more common for people to have alternative funeral celebrations. You may opt to have a Christian funeral service without Mass led by a priest or a member of the funeral team. Those who have died during the month, including your loved one, can be remembered at Masses on Sunday.

Arrival at the church: After the coffin arrives at the sanctuary in the church, there is an option to present symbols of the life of your loved one.

Scripture Readings: Choose a reading from our booklet or from this website [READINGS] for a soft copy of all readings.
After the first reading, a psalm is sung or read. The Undertaker will suggest names of musicians.

Gospel: The priest or leader will choose a Gospel reading.

Bidding Prayers: From the selection provided in the booklet or on the website, choose 4 or 5 prayers that can be read by one or more people. You may wish to select a reflection that can be read after the Our Father.

Optional tribute: People appreciate a short, more focused presentation. Keep the tribute limited to 4 to 5 minutes in length read by one person. A concise presentation often resonates better. This can be discussed with the funeral team.

Music: The music choice will enhance the beauty of the liturgy. It should reflect the Lord’s victory over death that opens us to everlasting life. Your choice of music may include instrumental music. Appropriate choices of secular songs, may be played at the end of the ceremony.

The Committal
Finally there is the committal. It’s a moment of sorry when together with your family and friends you will say your final earthly goodbye. The funeral team will be there to lead you in that prayer of farewell.