Funeral Guideline

We extend our deepest condolences to you as you grieve the loss of a loved ones. We outline here a pathway to follow through this difficult time.

Initially, we invite you to contact the Funeral Director of your choice. The body of your loved one will be cared for by them until the morning of the ceremony.

The Undertaker will also contact our Parish funeral team who will arrange to meet with you to explain the options outlined below.

Before meeting them, you might like to make a list of those who would feel comfortable undertaking a reading, or, a role such as presenting symbols.

There are three key moments: the Vigil; the Ceremony; and, the Committal.

The Vigil
The video above outlines the importance of the Vigil. It takes place on the evening before the funeral ceremony. At the end, a funeral team member can be available to lead the prayer.

The Ceremony
Something to consider: It’s becoming more common for people to have alternative funeral celebrations. You may opt to have a Christian funeral service without Mass led by a priest or a member of the funeral team. Those who have died during the month, including your loved one, can be remembered at Masses on Sunday.

Arrival at the church: After the coffin arrives at the sanctuary in the church, there is an option to present symbols of the life of your loved one.

Scripture Readings: Choose a reading from our booklet or click: READINGS for a soft copy of all readings.
After the first reading, a psalm is sung or read. The Undertaker will suggest names of musicians.

Gospel: The priest or leader will choose a Gospel reading.

Bidding Prayers: From the selection provided in the booklet or on the website, choose 4 or 5 prayers that can be read by one or more people.

You may also wish to select a reflection that can be read during the service.

Optional tribute: People appreciate a short, more focused presentation. Keep the tribute limited to 4 to 5 minutes in length read by one person. A concise presentation often resonates better. This can be discussed with the funeral team.

Music: The music choice will enhance the beauty of the liturgy. It should reflect the Lord’s victory over death that opens us to everlasting life. Your choice of music may include instrumental music. Appropriate choices of secular songs, may be played at the end of the ceremony or at the Committal.

The Committal
Finally, there is the committal. It’s a moment of sorry when together with your family and friends you will say your final earthly goodbye. The funeral team will be there to lead you in that prayer of farewell.